Wow! She wanted the divorce - but I guess she just thought you'd walk away. Like most of our spouses & OP. Somehow the exes think we will just be nice and let them have everything and I know in my case - OW thought she was just going to step into my life, have my house, inherit 3 kids - her husband told me "She always wanted a daughter (well NOT mine!).
But the point is - it is DONE. The house WILL be yours. She will be gone and you can move fwd knowing you did everything you could.