Hi Nail,

I read your sitch. If you haven’t read other sitches on here, you might want to browse over some of them. I hear ya loud and clear, a lot of the same stuff in our sitches, same age kids as well. If you haven’t already, let her go and lay off. Hopefully you’re not initiating talks with her. Your moves are under a microscope right now. Hopefully a vet will chime in soon. They are very helpful and I would highly suggest following there guidance. Take care buddy, I know this stuff is extremely difficult.
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Freshman class of 2012
Me(M):38
W:43
Together: 15 Married: 11
D:5
S:8
W wanted separation 5/5/12
Stopped living together 5/5/12

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Thomas Jefferson