Hi Tumbling , keep going you know you can do it . It sounds like you've been doing really well at trying to detach from your H , and thank you for the advice you have given to me . In that advice you suggested that if i knew i would get upset by being ignored after getting in touch , then to try and NOT get in touch . We are just setting ourselves up for a fall . Let him get in touch with you , i know its realy hard to pull away but im sure its doing his head in as much as yours even if he doesnt show it on the outside . Like labug says you detaching wont cause your M to end , and he might reach out to you ! Blimey listen to me giving out advice like i know what im on about ? I wish i could put it into practice myself :-) . Seriously though, keep going we're all routing for you .
I think this GAL thing is of paramount importance , and once they see you with one they take notice again . I hope i can get one (for me ) and enjoy it and as a by product my W notices and reconsiders .
