Fade thanks for your input definitely take it to consideration. Yes the separation is on hold for now. I'm glad we did as seem like the consensus point out to not a good idea for now.
I just found out not everyone knows from her family just SIL and her husband. But yes that also crossed my mind about telling OM's wife, I think if I would've have the contact number of OMs W that time I blew a gasket I probably would've called her.
DEAR LORD... HOW DID I MISS THIS POST??
DO NOT do this Newman. It has a much better chance of completely blowing up in your face than working. If the EA continues, the OM will be exposed eventually anyway.
What you are doing... much of it... is CONTROLLING BEHAVIOR. This may be why your W is wanting to pull away from you. You should look into this and the role that it has played in your M.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
