Originally Posted By: AlkalineThoughts

So in short: Today I miss her, but I don't NEED her. I want to work things out, but I'm already doing everything I can do (at least for now) to contribute to that and I can't get upset if I don't see progress from her end... Because she's made her decisions and I've made mine... I'm paving a path home, but I'm not waiting to take her by the hand and guide her. I'm just leaving a trail of awesome behind that she can follow if she wishes...


Good for you for realizing that you're doing all you can and can't expect anything else. Love the "trail of awesome"! I need to start making one of those too.


M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13