Divorced #5. And I think Im getting it..

[Carnac]

Isn't it funny how God gives us what we need at the right time? I've actually been listening to some lessons on youtube by a guy name Francis Chan that wrote a book called Crazy Love. He's a really dynamic speaker and he talks alot about the joy we're supposed to have as Christians....its been really inspirational to me

[Mrs D]

I may have to check that out as well Carnac. I have to say I wish I had brought a recorder to record last Sundays message. It just spoke directly to me! Of course, probably other people as well, but in my mind it was for me.

I heard a song coming into the office this morning by Darius Rucker "True Believers". I thought of you, and Arsene, and Sup (mainly cause I know you guys stories more than any here). The song relates to you guys so much, and I guess alittle to me as well, even though Im divorced (if we ever do get the chance to be together). Basically its about getting married and the trials and tribes the relationship goes through, and till the end you believe you will make it. Maybe thats what got me alittle sad on the way in this morning, I dont know. I really hope that I get that chance to make it again with my X. But there are no guarantees.

Happy Wednesday! Day #4...

[Carnac]

Hopefully you made it through the morning with no contact....thats the easy part though right...stay strong

[Mrs D]

Hopefully you made it through the morning with no contact....thats the easy part though right...stay strong

Yep - so far so good!! I dont remember if I told him last week tonights session wasnt until late again. Not sure if I should send him a reminder, or to let it go.

[mshaf]

Mrs. D,

Just saying hi! I hope you are doing well! I'll take some time tonight to get more caught up on your sitch.

[sweetbabyred]

I just looked up the True Believers song. I'd never heard it before, but I loved the message. It actually made me cry because that's what I've always wanted.

I never in a million years imagined that I'd be separated or going through a divorce. I want and need a spouse that is willing to be a true believer with me.

Good luck with day 4 of NC. It's tough, but it'll get a little easier.

[Mrs D]

Mrs. D,

Just saying hi! I hope you are doing well! I'll take some time tonight to get more caught up on your sitch.

Hey M - havent seen you around for awhile. Hope all is well!! I need to catch up again with your sitch as well.. Mine is still the same. Two forward, 12 back... Talk soon

[Mrs D]

I just looked up the True Believers song. I'd never heard it before, but I loved the message. It actually made me cry because that's what I've always wanted.

I never in a million years imagined that I'd be separated or going through a divorce. I want and need a spouse that is willing to be a true believer with me.

Good luck with day 4 of NC. It's tough, but it'll get a little easier.

Youtube it Sweetbaby! The song is absolutely wonderful, and that is where I want to be as well. With my X.

[Carnac]

just send him a quick text and let him know that you'll be later tonight. No extra chat and no reason to tell him why you'll be late...he knows. You might just say hey i've got a late appt just making sure you knew

[sweetbabyred]

That's exactly what I did. I'm not sure if there's a real video, but I was able to hear the song.

I loved the part about things not always being easy, and stumbling, but still getting to where they wanted to be.

I think that's the part of love that so many people don't think about. It's all excitement and hormones, with no thought to the work that it actually takes to keep a relationship together.