Still together but trying to save this

[PeteWyo]

Easy there Sandi. I never said I was going to make her look through it while I was sitting there. I was going to leave it in her car or something. The thing is that I had this idea months ago. I really do want her to remember all the good times we had. I have ZERO expectations by wanting to give her this other than for her not to forget about the good times we had.

As for "celebrating", she wants to close the door on our marriage, I'm not the one that wants to do that. What is wrong with two adults having dinner together?