Still together but trying to save this

[hopefulinga]

Sandi brings up some good points. While in your mind you are being a good person by creating a thoughtful gift, who will it be thoughtful to? If you were detached, not married, etc., would you still do this? Would you give an ex an album full of pictures of the 2 of you? If you were doing this as a person, and not a husband, you would probably give her an empty album.

This may run her further off.