Originally Posted By: zig
This morning all i can see is that i have to get as far away from him as possible until i can ground myself in my OWN self again.


This sounds like a great idea... Move on from yesterday's incident. Today is a new day, a new opportunity to be good to yourself.

Here is a little something that always helps me lift my spirits after a backslide or when I am going thru a wave of pain - from The Dalai Lama. I hope it helps:

"Every day, think as you wake up. Today I am fortunate to have woken up. I am alive, I have a precious human life. I am not going to waste it. I am going to use all my energies to develop myself, to expand my heart out to others, to achieve enlightment for the benefit of all beings. I am going to have kind thoughts towards others, I am not going to get angry, or think badly about others. I am going to benefit others as much as I can."


((((zig))))

Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D