I just looked up the True Believers song. I'd never heard it before, but I loved the message. It actually made me cry because that's what I've always wanted.

I never in a million years imagined that I'd be separated or going through a divorce. I want and need a spouse that is willing to be a true believer with me.

Good luck with day 4 of NC. It's tough, but it'll get a little easier.

M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13