SS, hats off to you for all your hard work and protecting yourself from further pain and heartache.
Not sure i have much to offer but i know if you gave me that list it might be overwhelming but if you start with discussing #1 then move to your next big hitter and deal with that one individually. I would think in doing so you build your communication skills and see where things go from there.
Prayers to you and the entire DB communitiy, wouldn't wish this on anybody...
I would rather feel pain then never feel at all... Separated 3/2012 T 34 yrs M 27 yrs