I just don't understand how a couple can "celebrate" a wedding anniversary when they're breaking up. Are you celebrating what once was....but no longer is? IDK, to each his own, I suppose. But regarding this "gift" you want to give her.....if you need to face the pain, and looking through this album is your way of doing it, then fix it and keep for yourself. But to say that you have to look at it "with" her sounds more like you want to watch her as she looks at the pictures, hoping this is going to guilt her into doing......what exactly? Breaking down and crying over what she's done to you?
She deserves to have it? Oh please! Expectations? I think you do.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
