i think in some way he is using it to defend himself against his own guilt..
I agree my dearest zig...(((( )))))
He wants to make himself believe that you have not changed so he can continue to justify his decisions....and we ALL know better than that. And we have all learned that the WAS will continue to do this until...they simply cannot. So it should have ZERO effect on you.
this is HIS spin...not yours.
And when he does bring it up and talk about it, you can continue to be, whether he sees it or not, the better you that you have become.
i think its a good night for picnic...come back to the blanket zig...let the castle shake on its own....
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home