Newman, The wedding was very nice. The message was really hitting home with the sanctity of marriage. I noticed my W was having a hard time sitting still, maybe the message was causing her to think. We did not dance, so that turned out not being an issue. Reading your Sitch and mine I just cant understand how we got to this point. I look around at other marriges and wonder how are they sticking together when they have visible problems. I will admitt I have allowed life to get in between us but how has that knocked us to our knees? Thats a real struggle for me. Why the other spouse will basically shutdown and build this resentment wall. The not dressing in front of you was another knockout blow. We are seeing a IC same person different times. The IC told me last night that the W has noticed my changes. I went out and bought new clothes which she noticed. So I guess the 180 plan does work.
