I've not been around much - focussing on career stuff lately, but I check in from time to time.
Mr Bond gave some good advice here. In particular:
"I've stayed firm about no physical contact,"
There's no loss for her it seems.
With women, it's the emotional connection that is important, and this would be 'backed up' with the physical.
I've still be thinking about how to overcome this status quo you have found yourself in, other than moving out and/or not being emotionally involved, I can't think of anything else.
