Well she called my therapist and said she would not even consider it. So it was too soon. Also, I am about 50% she is having an EA with a person we know from our church. But I am not totally sure but it kinda hurts seeing as it took her less than 2 months to move on. Just kinda feel played but the person I trusted most. But I will continue to put on a smile and go on with life because I know how rebound relationships work.
OK, so let's assume she's having an EA. Have you asked yourself why? What is your part in driving her to an EA? Happily married spouses don't seek out EA's. Don't look at it as a betrayal, look at it as a sign that your R isn't working. Look at your part in this, and do 180's on your own faults. You can only change yourself, this is the whole DB concept. Change yourself into a good-looking, upbeat, kind and loving person that your W can't resist. And then wait, wait, wait. DO NOT ask her if she's having an EA, and do not snoop. Read Michele's 34 180 tips every day to remind yourself what to do and not do.
