I'm reading your sitch. So far you mentioned a lot of the stuff my W has also mentioned. The difference is you found a way and my w is finding her way but she doesn't know how. You can truly help me understand my W better. So feel free when you can to shine a light finding her.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.