Anotherstander: I've seen baby steps, they've just been incredibly small. I think im on the right track, at least for now and at least for me, but I appreciate the thought you put into your response.
Of course you know your sitch better than us and know how best to proceed, the thing I like about these forums is we get a lot of different perspectives and that helps us resolve how to move forward even if the method doesn't necessarily agree with some of the advice.
I know what you mean about tiny baby steps because that's all I'm seeing as well. Patience has never been my strength! I really think there would be a lot more WAS reconcilations if the LBS's had more patience, but after a month or two most people want to just give up and move on. It even happened with my parents, my mom was a WAW and by the time she decided to return my dad was done with her. They both went on to multiple dysfunctional relationships afterwards, they never were happy again I don't think.
