Dropping the rope, hope I'm doing the right thing.

[scaredsilly]

thank you, arsene. life does have it's twists and turns.

i did get this response from him on monday about number 1:

"I could answer quickly but I think I do my best when I give myself the chance to run things around in my head. some the answer would be the same but with more meaning ( I think) so if I can please, I will answer that soon. I would like to ask for your other 34 when you ready, I don’t need before I answer but I think they are things I need so that I have given you all your chance to give we what you think, want and see for your future.

Thanks for your email."

i replied for him to take as much time as he needs because it is important to me and i'm in no hurry.

and i'm not. i have the rest of my life, with or without him. but it will be intersting to read what number 1 means to him. i've never been the most important realationship to him before. his kids are adults now so, maybe he's ready to put "us" first?

i know i can't have it any other way. been there, done that.