About the needing advice fast...you don't have to answer every text immediately. Every time she makes contact is not the interaction that will make or break this.
Relax.
What are you goals? Are you working on them? That will help you more than anything with all these little details.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss