Rachael, You can ask your h about meeting with the priest, but don't be surprised if he says no. He doesn't think that he's doing anything wrong..."he's working on the marriage"...remember?
If you opt to go w/the Last Resort, are you ready to deal w/the fallout? I haven't seen many mlcers who don't turn cruel and nasty once the spouse puts their foot down. It's very difficult to do when you have children. On the other hand, standing, but going on w/your own life and leaving him in the wind is the other option.
Rachael, if you aren't sure what to do, do nothing. Put your faith in God and allow God to help you make the decision.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
