Last night seemed to go ok. H was late to dinner again, but D and I were already eating.
At dinner, we did talk a little bit more about the issue that got us sideways on Monday. We were able to talk about it without any disagreements or accusations. I continued to listen and show my support.
H then told me about a difficult time he had at work. Again I listened and supported him. I told him that it seemed like he was getting hit from all sides and how unfortunate that was.
He's been riding the motorcycle everyday after work, which gives him some time to blow off steam. Yesterday he bought some stuff to put on it, which I know he was doing before he came home.
He's not gotten to the point of asking about what I did. He did know the important parts of my day already, as I had to take D to the doctor and let him know what happened. And I also had to make a presentation that I already told him about. So, I think he believes I will tell him if something is important and he will not ask. I don't take offense to it. I just know I have to tell him if I want him to know.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together