If anything I felt your w's comments were more a reflection of wanting to flee and be free
and not to take d with her. Mostly I would not put a lot of weight into it.
I agree 25. That's what I thought as well.
But if that happens, I'd get back to a nation where YOU having physical custody of your d is something permanent. At this rate if you stay there and she's gone, can't she come back when and if she feels like it? And get your d back?
Yes, the reasons why I'm here are 1st, to make sure my D8 is near both parents and 2nd, to try to work things out with W. If she goes alone, both these reasons are gone and I'll be looking at going elsewhere.
I do NOT think you should change your plans based on ONE days' interactions with your w that were mostly good. Plus the "pay no attention to what they say" has NOT sunk in with you for some reason. Let it sink in.
It has sunk in. I'm not making anything of it. Just reporting, really. I don't plan on changing my plan based on this one day or anyone day. I'm sticking with it, for at least long enough to see if anything changes. As you told Denver back then, 90-100 days. That's sounds reasonable to me.
I happened to think the majority of the comments were good although when she brings up living where YOU wanted, I'd STFU and let her ask you to move to the other area...
Yes. I know. I was taken aback.
if you want to. But if she does go, without your d then protect yourself and your d.
Absolutely. I've thought about this as well.
Thanks 25. As always, very useful.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
