If anything I felt your w's comments were more a reflection of wanting to flee and be free
and not to take d with her. Mostly I would not put a lot of weight into it.
But if that happens, I'd get back to a nation where YOU having physical custody of your d is something permanent. At this rate if you stay there and she's gone, can't she come back when and if she feels like it? And get your d back?
I do NOT think you should change your plans based on ONE days' interactions with your w that were mostly good. Plus the "pay no attention to what they say" has NOT sunk in with you for some reason. Let it sink in.
I happened to think the majority of the comments were good although when she brings up living where YOU wanted, I'd STFU and let her ask you to move to the other area...
if you want to. But if she does go, without your d then protect yourself and your d.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
