I read your sitch. Yes I see a lot of similarities with our WAW's. We also went to a family wedding a month ago. I also didn't know if I should ask W but I know she like to dance so I did asked her to dance. I took her hand gently and asked her if she'd like to dance and she didn't refuse so we did. The whole time I pretended I was dancing with a friend. No R talk no pressure right? We felt at ease and we enjoyed dancing. But after the party everything is back to the way it was--pretty sad but what can you do. I just move on.
So how did it go? Did you guys end up dancing? Don't worry about her being bitter about your 180 right now. I'm going through the same with my W on some of my 180s. Although she's not bitter about it, she just seem like she doesn't care. Heck I even participated in a charity event 4 months ago and she didn't even express anything.
Keep posting it will help your sanity.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
