Anotherstander: I've seen baby steps, they've just been incredibly small. I think im on the right track, at least for now and at least for me, but I appreciate the thought you put into your response.
You also have to remember per the book that our expectations are so high, that we may not even see any steps or are missing them due to expecting more/bigger events!
I truly feel where you are coming from Car, and I for one have analyzed some positive steps along the way, but all of that unfortunately has become null & void since my little Wal-Mart rendevous...LoL
I also agree the part about becoming the Man/Husband/Father that anybody would be a fool to leave, because I feel more like that about myself everyday, and then BAM some stupid A$$ curve ball comes from left field and whacks me in the face.
If "YOU" feel that you are on the right track, then stick with it! Look at Denver: He stated that half the time he didn't know what the heck track he was on due to the curve balls he was thrown as well, but he stayed consistent with things before jumping ship!