Divorced #5. And I think Im getting it..

[unbidden]

Good for you:)

[Carnac]

Great job MrsD: Now to go for 4. Tell you what, i'll do today with you, not that i've had any for at least a week, but i'll definitely see my wife tonight at church and i'll make a point not to speak to her unless she comes up to me, and if she does come up to me i'll keep it strictly to business. Are you in? And no calling about some bs relating to your son just so you can hear his voice or make the call. If you absolutely HAVE to contact him about your son go ahead but it has to be ALL business. Deal?

[Mrs D]

Carnac. You are on my friend. But tomorrow is Wednesday (therapy) and I normally go into the house to get C. Do I just send a text Im here? Or do I go in to get him, but keep it strictly business?

[Mrs D]

Good for you:)

thanks unbidden!!! Im going for 4!

[MrBond]

Go in to get them.

[MrBond]

Go in to get them.

[Mrs D]

Speaking of church Carnac, last Sundays message was fighting for you relationships. Whether it was marriage, friendships, relatives, those in divorce. Awesome awesome day at church Sunday. I also went into the prayer group asking our pastor to say a prayer to help heal me my heart, to help me find strength to continue to walk down the road of making myself a better person and to help X find the tools to want to restore our marriage. Very moving day. And I wonder if thats where Ive found my strength not to contact him? If I were a betting woman....

[Carnac]

Whatever you normally do is fine, just keep it business. Don't start a conversation, and if he does be nice, be polite, be friendly but don't get sucked into any 'us' talk.

[Mrs D]

Go in to get them.

Ok Bond. I will. And I will be just fine I think. I really really do think I can do this without getting Annie Wilkes.

[Mrs D]

Whatever you normally do is fine, just keep it business. Don't start a conversation, and if he does be nice, be polite, be friendly but don't get sucked into any 'us' talk.

Will do!