It looks like you're off moderation now, you should get some responses.
Post often, that keeps your thread on the first page.
What are your goals? If you don't know look at the first topic at the top of this page. You can get help with goals there.
Read all you can about detachment-google livestrong detachment and elsewhere.
GAL-what are your activities?
Not to be too simplistic but this is probably at the crux of the problem. This is interesting: When I think back there was one, probably major, sign that I turned away from. 3 years ago W told me she was unhappy, but as far as I remember didn't say why. I don't recall her telling me she wasn't happy with our relationship. Our daughter was a few months old at the time so I figured it was possibly hormonal or something.
Why do you think you ignored this at the time? Answer this without mentioning your W.
Because you can only fix you.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
