Am starting to realise also (probably too late) that I've been dancing around tryin to not upset her and be mr nice and caring. Like the way I've been for years before she took my balls. I need to stop this. Man up, make some boundarys, explain divorce is not the solution I see as how to fix our marriage and am willing to talk about it if she wants too but the affair must end before we can seriously do that and as long as this affair continues then I will not try to change her mind but I will not assist this divorce or the affair to continue (watching the dogs and so on to help her sell our home or let her get out to work events).
I know I have to show strenght now. I just need some help finding it and keepin on the right path.
Kevin
Me-38W-28. M-2 1/2. Together-7 years OM-14/4/12 Told M in trouble-17/4/12 BD-5/6/12 S-5/6/12 ProofOM-17/06/12 Start to change me-31/08/12 EA+PA-14/04/12-now
