OK, "If you bring a boyfriend into our marital home I will _______________"

Fill in the blank. What will you do? File for divorce? Sell the house? The consequence has to be something you will do, that you *can* do, and that you are willing to do to enforce the boundary.

The worst thing you can do is lay down a boundary, watch it get broken, and then not follow through, so choose your stated boundaries wisely.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015