Standing is when you decide to stand for your marriage, and try and ride out the MLC by working on yourself, i.e. getting a life (GAL). Last Resort Technique (LRT), if you're not sure, is basically kicking him out, and going dark. Difficult when you have kids, so one can go gray-ish.
I'm so sorry you're going through this, Rachael. It's such a horrible place to be. In the beginning, I was sure I would have a heart attack. Praying is a good thing to do, and I used to read the scriptures every night. And, it helps to be grateful for the things you do have, for example, the love of your children. Just tell yourself that everything will work out in the way it's supposed to. God will not let you down ... just be patient.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim