DLS... most definitely DB is a godsend. Do they ever look back and have regrets about their behaviour? Time will tell on that because I don't expect this will change any time soon. Just lighting the way home and taking it day by day.
GALbaby,
I believe some of the behavior is "automatic" and not intended. It's the human mind. Although, I'm sure some of them ARE getting off on doing it on purpose, I think many of them got caught up in a tough situation and the mind has a certain way of trying to justify it - hence SPEW.