Good plan to not get in touch. And you're right about checking your phone/emails but the positive is you're not calling or emailing. smile

You detaching won't cause your marriage to end and it may take the pressure off your H so he can think. I'm sure he's confused too.

Just keep busy working on you and GAL. You can only control you.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss