Bond nailed it. You see Scotland, this is how I look at it. Say someones in a 12 step program but decides to skip steps 4-11, same thing my friend. Not a good idea to short circuit these things. Unfortunately I don’t believe they make DR available as an E book however I think its available at most library's or major bookstores. After reading DR, I had a dramatic change in my way of thinking. I view it as the "fundamentals". It's the foundation and building blocks for DB'ing.
_________________________________ Freshman class of 2012 Me(M):38 W:43 Together: 15 Married: 11 D:5 S:8 W wanted separation 5/5/12 Stopped living together 5/5/12
“Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude”. Thomas Jefferson
