Witz, I agree that it sounds like her current R will crash and burn. But that's her journey and you need to focus on yours. It really sounds like you haven't detached, you're still trying to hold onto her. She served you S papers, so now would be a good time to detach. Personally I'd go along with the S with the caveat that you don't want to discuss D for "x" months, then detach and see what happens.
Your posts in this thread all sound very down in the dumps, if they represent your current attitude then you really need to work on your PMA and self-esteem. No one is going to be attracted to you if you're down all the time. Nothing improves self-esteem faster than changing your appearance. Work out, get buff, change your hair, whiten your teeth, get a tan. Your PMA will go up and you'll get noticed for your looks and your PMA. Show your W a handsome, fit, confident you and she'll be bound to question her choice of dating a drunk.
