STBXH stopped by today to visit. his news: they are moving to a house from the flat. (they just moved into that flat in May.) she's mad at him about who knows what. she has made poor choices in the past with men and is currently paying a massive loan she took our for an exBF. STBXH makes considerably less money than her. That made me laugh. (sorry inner bitch) Divorce should be final by Dec/Jan. Somehow that made me happy. I'm ready to be D and not Separated. he said she could notarize the papers for free. Hmmmm not too sure how I feel about her name on my D papers. But in the long run it's not like I'm framing it and putting it on the wall. He has a new dog that he named something I had always vetoed.
He looks so...bad actually. dirty, needs a haircut, crappy shoes I wouldn't have let him buy. I've gotten myself together post split both inside and out. He hasn't.