You said she was diagnosed with depression. That has nothing really to do with the M. The marital problems are a result of the depression.

Be there for her ESPECIALLY since she's initiating. Go out and have fun with her. Remember when you two were dating, try and get her to "feel" it.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER