Guess when he bought all his new skinny clothes, he picked up several pairs of cranky pants too
Hang in there. Remember who he is really mad at, himself. You are just an easy target. But you aren't taking the bait - good for you! Don't react to his nonsense and drama! He'll do anything to keep the focus off of himself and his mental and emotional mess. We know better than to be part of the distraction.
Isn't the "spew" something else? Before divorcebusting.com, most of us tried to logically understand it and it will make you CRAZY.
Glad we can all accept it's spew and it should never affect your emotions or feelings about yourself.