Hi Brit! Making a list of things you'd like in a new partner is a great ideA. My c had me do the same when my M ended. It makes you think about your own goals & having someone with similar goals is great especially for things that involve travel. I actually gave my list a point system according to importance. Didn't rely on it too.carefully but referred to it when I was I terested in someone. Turns out Ex us a really poor match (he got a negative number) & a couple of guys I had. Offer dates with would not have been fun for me. Josh (my honey) had similar goals & values ( also very important) & the things we didn't have in common - we have learned to appreciate in one another. I did add to the list & make a few changes over time ( before I got the nerve up to actually try dating) but found it really helpful. Barb
