Well, that is what I'm thinking. I read on here not to snoop but I have. I told him I won't share him with someone else. What is standing? Is that setting a boundary?
I don't know how I am going to find out info because he is very careful to hide things. I am locked out of his computer acct. and the phone acct. However, I have checked email which I access through my computer cuz he didn't change that password. and his actual phone. I know he gets around this by skyping. The only thing I can think of is to put a voice activated recorder in his car. But where to put it? Plus, I still have to see a lawyer.