Sandi and Denver please keep posting. I'm reading your sitchs lots of helpful advice and eye opening info.

Denver so far from your sitch I'm taking in how you'd truly love and cared for your W unconditionally. And this can help me understand myself.

Sandi, through your sitch I'm understanding what my w is feeling and how I can truly find the way for me to own up to how I helped her to be the way she felt.

Im still reading, will post more later.

Newman

me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.