TIME buddy....everything in TIME. She wants to ML and hold hands..that is a good sign!
Patience is a b*tch - right now, I still see the same thing I saw in your post a while ago. You want this to be fixed NOW. You may need to have some patience dude. If she is depressed she (not YOU) needs the time to sort through it.
Maybe instead of focusing on your pain, focus on trying to have some fun with her. Try and show her by your actions....what a happy person is.
As for the conflicting advice, you will find it here. Take what YOU feel works for YOU in your sitch. Only you know that.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
