Still here, still status quo. He is back on Facebook now. He went off a while back citing he didn't want his friends getting in the middle of our divorce from reading on FB. It still lists us as married and we are still friends but he has not told me he did this. Not sure what that means.
Our conversations are friendly. He is opening up as he feels ok, but still at a status quo. I guess I am still learning patience but I have stuck toy word on No R talk. I know I am still gone but only until this weekend and then ? I get home late Saturday or early Sunday morning. Really wish I knew how he felt about me coming home, but I bite my tongue and keep my mouth shut. Not sure about sleeping arrangements or anything else as we only have one bed. He can sleep on the couch if he wants, but it hurts his back so I am not sure how long that will last if it goes that direction.
I have been doing a lot of listening lately. Just letting him talk when we do talk and keeping my mouth shut. It's was not easy at first, but I have learned a LOT in at time. This is not a bad thing, just change. When youave been doing something one way your entire life, the transition, while doable, is slow.
Other an that, everything seems to be going ok. I am more an ready to be HOME.
Me- 29 H - 36 T - 5y M - 2y D - 11 months BD#1 June 2013 BD#2 H files 10/28/13 Retrouvaille Nov 13 BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14 Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set Supposedly he's moving out?
