You start reading or looking at anyone else's threads yet?
I get the feeling you don't.
I think you're just posting here, with the idea that maybe your situation is ground breakingly new to some of us.
And it's not.
Read some of these other guys around here and see exactly how your approach, which is mirrored in almost every guy who comes here at first, see how that works out. Give it a go. Get some empathy for some of the posters out there.
You and your wife? You guys are unique. Your situation? It isn't.
The clingy, pressure and I just need an answer...right now, bucause...I now you said you needed time, but my needs, and desire for comfort are more important than hers...
Almost never ever works.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
