So I'm glad you checked back. Today is a day where I'm going to need much support from anyone and everyone (here and in real life).

She replied with a few kiddo details that do need to be immediately addressed. Actually simple stuff.

And then the following:
"I understand that you don’t want to talk about this at work, but we don’t exactly have time to talk about it at home without children either. Hence, the situation we find ourselves in. I don’t know what would be fair because I don’t know what you want other than for this to not be happening. I knew, I knew ten years ago when we first got together that one day we would be divorced and it would hurt you. I know you genuinely love me, and I’m sorry. I feel like I can’t apologize enough."

I'm only going to reply to the kiddo details, and not get sucked into the details of our M, during my work day. My job is too emotionally consuming to deal with this (she knows that). Also, I'm going to make her do all the work. I threw the division ball into her court. wink