labug: Thanks for your comment. It is not what my spewing was about, though.
My point was that she seems to be so defensive about her gay rights - although there is no need since myself and others who deal with her and also with me have noticed this. We do not care at all that she is gay. I have dozens of gay friends. The point I was making was that she seems to use her defensiveness of her lifestyle to defend her right to control everyone and everything around her. This was NOT meant that all that she is defensive because she is gay. None of my other gay friends are defensive like this but it is evident that she uses this as an "in your face" kind of behaviour.
I did not write it in order to pi$$ you or anyone else off. Obviously you have already made a judgement of me by what you read last week when you really don't know me or my situation at all. If you choose to not read my thread - that is fine. I am always open to comments but I can see you do not get where I am coming from.
