I won't read your thread again, not sure why I did this morning. I can't believe what I just read. My .02, I've met many straight women with the same personality traits you describe.
I can understand your anger at this person but your ad hominem statement adds nothing to your point.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss