put your cape on! lol.. i guess my DB is more than savin my marriage. it is about saving me. if i cant fix myself, how can i fix a marriage. i do believe that i could save it if i truly wanted to now. i dont. i dont want the baggage and drama that W has done nothing to change.
you have taught me alot about finding myself. enjoying the small things. not a day goes by that i dont tell myself to stop and eat a strawberry. my life is getting better when i dont plan for certain outcomes. i do the best i can and let the chips fall where they may. amazingly they seem to fall in my lap alot more these days.
its amazing what we can learn from our moms. mine teaches me something all the time. the key for me is to listen with an open mind. i do the 24 hr thing bug told me to alot.
Dakota
Does it feel good to know, that once you have taken care of you, that you will get what's coming to you? It may not be your wife, and keep in mind that none of us are perfect, you may be just fine as a person with opportunities and capabilities. However the situations that bring us into db-land do take a lot out of you, you never think about it going into it.