Your friend G will say it as he sees it, let him inform you of what he observes because he isn't emotionally involved here and his insights might help you to get your head around a few things.
Yeah, he's often offered a point of view i hadn't thought of. He's quite perceptive and he's also supportive of my standing for my marriage.
The interactions with your W about D8 and tantrums, seem really positive. Think of it this way, your daughter has seen change in how you are around her and responded to this change naturally without any agenda. Children express themselves so much better than us adults, ego gets in the way.
Yes, I thought so too,and the fact that it's been pointed out by W means that she has also noticed.(don't worry 25, I didn't say a thing to W about my chages )
About your PMA, like I said on my own thread please do something for you today, something you like doing or have wanted to try and post it here. That part of your life could also use a shot in the arm mate.
Bill
Funny you said this. I've been thinking about stuff all day and decided to start doing the things I can do with no money (I'm more than a little short these days - until pay day at the end of the month).
In my early posts I mentioned I'd like to give back to the community around here as a huge 180 (all the years I've been here I never really spent much time with my neighours) and I decided that I could build a playground for the local kids. It just happens that the house I just moved in has a huge back yard but it's filled with rubbish of all sorts (looks like the remains of an old building that's been demolished).
I don't know when I'll be able to buy material to build the playground but I decided to start clearing the rubbish, by hand. Put in an hour today, after my meditation and my hour doing laps at the pool.
It felt great. I haven't done that much physical work since I left the army 25 years ago.
Also, on my way back from work tonight, I dropped by a local cafe and managed to get a gig starting next week. I'm not sure how often I'll be playing but it's an hour per night 9-10. Now I just need to get my repertoire polished up.
Thanks for the support Bill.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
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