"W also said that she'd occasionally asked D8 if she wanted to go live with her at some point and D8 had in the past shown excitement at the idea, however, W said that the last time she'd asked, D8 had replied that she was happy with me and that she was ok here. W said she was happy to hear that. I'm not sure what to make of this." Red flag. She's starting to think of escape plans with your D.
"I'm now quite confused about what to do in my sitch. I thought I was learning and doing the right thing and that my plan was a good one."
Yep.
Yeah, it crossed my mind Bond. On the other hand, something else she mentioned was that she was thinking that it might not be the best idea to get the tenants out of our house at the end of the lease in March.
When she chose to come to this city, her plan was to take over the house and start a business of some sort (a school/library for local kids). I always thought that when she did, she might want to take D8 away from me but now this.
I actually think (based on the fact that she seems to be reconsidering her decision to live here) that she is probably thinking about moving to the touristic area of the country and that she's fine with D8 being with me. It means she can do what she wants. She'd also mentioned in the past that she'd got an offer to go and sing on cruise ships. I think she is planning her way out, more than planning to take D8 with her. In the life she is living now, D8 would be an inconvenience and added expenses.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
